A Question Worth Answering

Before i start i would love to wish my dearest buddy ratak a very happy married life... Most of us won't argue about the fact that marriage is the most happiest day of a persons life and the principle goal of every ones life can also be described in the name of marriage. well... talking about marriage i always have had a question of whether i should be happy on the day of my marriage coz some times i have a thought about marriage that one side of it can b described as a man loosing his true independence. by true independence i mean the fact that after the marriage we all would have to allocate most of our time to our family and wife which means we would not have as much time as we had for our friends hanging out, going for coffee's and bla bla u know :p. And in any case or any time in our lives the family will be the first priority. Which means the true independence of a man is gone right  eheeh... well the ultimate question i was talking about was whither marriage is the funeral of the man's true independence or not. THE FUNERAL OR THE HAPPIEST DAY IN A MAN'S LIFE....